Archive - May, 2006

Weekend re-cap

I had a very busy, but relaxing Memorial Day weekend. Unfortunately, I was too lazy to take very many pics. I did manage to snap a few at my dad’s.

We camped on Janet and Richard’s (James’ mom and dad’s) property Friday night. Richard cooked dinner and breakfast over a campfire. The food was delicious. There’s a certain flavor that only a good campfire can give pork chops and bacon and eggs. James and the girls slept in a tent in the front yard!! I figure I have one more year of taking Anjelia home and sleeping in our own beds before I will have to join them in the tent! I think next year we’ll have a two room tent with a tunnel. There’s just not enough room in one tent for the six of us! Thank you Mom and Dad D for a wonderful time.

The next morning we went swimming and then headed home to get ready for a night out with adults. Tori babysat for us while we went out to dinner and a movie with Carl, Mary, Jeff, Keri, Abby and Mike. We saw the newest X-Men movie. It was very entertaining. James and I really needed a night out. I think I could use another date night with James!

Sunday we went to my Dad’s for barbeque. He fixed me the best grilled cheeseburger I’ve had in years! My dad and Connie are basically raising her two grandsons. The girls have a lot of fun playing with them. We spent several hours four wheeling around the property. James took me for a ride clear up the big hill to the back of the property. It was really fun and the view of the countryside is GORGEOUS. Lydia told James that it was romantic for him to take me there! Girls!!! I wish I’d snapped a pic of the view, but I didn’t take my camera.

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My dad and Lydia.

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Daddy, Elaina, and Anjelia. The girls had a blast!

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James and Baby. I fished a lot in that lake when I was a kid. I loved to stand in the water and watch the little fish nibble on my toes.

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Me!

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Me closer!

Yesterday, we picked up Grandma Dorothy and spent the afternoon and evening at Mom and Larry’s. There was a big dead tree in the back by the chicken house. Saturday Mom and Larry decided to pull that huge tree clear out of the ground roots and all. Next weekend they are going to tear down the chicken house. James had fun helping Larry burn the limbs and the gigantic stump. They said it will probably take a couple of weeks for it to completely burn up. We had a nice relaxing time watching the pyromaniac (James)!

I won’t keep boring you with the details of the weekend. I hope everyone has a good week!

I’ve learned that good-byes will always hurt, pictures will never replace having been there, memories good and bad will bring tears, and words can never replace feelings.”

Beanie man

FIND THE MAN

*I don’t know if the following is true and I am not going to take the time to find out!!

Doctors have concluded that if you find the man in the coffee beans in 3 seconds, your right half of your brain is better developed than most people.

If you find the man between 3 seconds and 1 minute, your right half of the brain is developed normally.

If you find the man between 1 minute and 3 minutes, then the right half of your brain is functioning slowly and you need to eat more protein.

If you have not found the man after 3 minutes, the advice is to look for more of this type of exercise to make that part of the brain stronger.

(And, yes, the man is really there!)

I guess this proves it; I am within normal range! . . . just in case there was any doubt!

“If you want to improve your understanding, drink coffee; it is the intelligent beverage.” Sydney Smith, 1771-1845

Piercing news

Saturday, I took my girls to the mall to have Lydia and Jessica’s ears pierced at Claire’s. It was a lot of fun and of course I managed to snap a couple of pics of my brave girls!


Lydia waited anxiously for her piercing. They do both ears at once!


Easy as pie. She did jump a little when the earrings went in.


Jessica was terrified to the point of shaking, but I was proud of her for sticking it out. She would have been very disappointed if she’d come home without her pretty studs.


It was worth it and it didn’t even hurt!

Creativity is piercing the mundane to find the marvelous.” Bill Moyers

Southern Women

After spending a few days in the good ole South, I really appreciated this cute e-mail my Aunt Kathryn sent me. I dedicate this to the women in my family with a southern drawl! Actually, I think I’ll dedicate this to all the ladies who love the South.

Southern women appreciate their natural assets:
Soft skin
An easy smile
That unforgettable Southern drawl

Southern women know their manners:
“Yes, ma’am.”
“Yes, sir.”
“Don’t you DARE…”

Southern women have a distinct way with fond expressions:
“Y’all come back, soon!”
“Well, bless your heart.”
“Call when you can.”
“Can I get you a glass of tea?”

Southern women know their summer weather report:
Humidity
Humidity
Humidity

Southern women know their vacation spots:
The beach
Shopping
Shopping at the beach

Southern women know the joys of June, July, and August:
Summer tans
Strapless sun dresses
Air conditioning

Southern women know everybody’s first name:
Honey
Darlin’
Shugah

Southern women know the movies that speak to their hearts:
Fried Green Tomatoes
Driving Miss Daisy
Steel Magnolias
Gone With The Wind

Southern women know their religions:
Baptist
Methodist
Football

Southern women know their country breakfasts:
Red-eye gravy & Country ham
Grits
Mouth-watering biscuits with momma’s homemade jelly

Southern women know their cities dripping with Southern charm:
Charleston (Chawl’stn)
Savannah (S’vanah)
New Orleans (N’orlins)
Atlanta (Addlanna)

Southern women know their elegant gentlemen:
Men in uniform or tuxedos
Men who open doors for women
Rhett Butler, of course!

Southern girls know their prime real estate:
The Mall
The Country Club
The Beauty Salon

Southern girls know the four deadly sins:
Having bad hair and nails
Having bad manners
Cooking bad food
Wearing too much makeup

Southern girls know, men may come and go, but their
girlfriends last fahevah!


On May 11th my two oldest girls and I went to our church’s Mother/Daughter banquet. It was such fun! James took our pic before we left. I thought I’d post a pic of my Belles.

“In the South, the breeze blows softer…neighbors are friendlier, nosier, and more talkative. (By contrast with the Yankee, the Southerner never uses one word when ten or twenty will do)…This is a different place. Our way of thinking is different, as are our ways of seeing, laughing, singing, eating, meeting and parting. Our walk is different, as the old song goes, our talk and our names. Nothing about us is quite the same as in the country to the north and west. What we carry in our memories is different too, and that may explain everything else.”

–Charles Kuralt in “Southerners: Portrait of a People”

Mother’s Day Reunion 2006

My family gathered together this past weekend to surprise and honor Grandma Vera!!! There were 50+ of us present to celebrate Mother’s Day together. It was HEAVENLY!!!! I love my family so much. My family is the most loving, fun loving, accepting, down to earth family there is. I miss you all so much! I loved just hanging out all weekend watching you and visiting with you. Thank you Aunt Kelli and Cousin Debbie for exercising your hospitality gifts this weekend. Thank you for opening your homes to us!

Click on each of these pictures to enlarge. PLEASE check out my picture gallery. My folder Mother’s Day Reunion is full of pics of the entire family. Click on the thumbnail to view the whole picture.

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Grandma and her six daughters Marlis, Marilyn, Nita, Linda, Kathryn and Kelli!

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Aunt Marlis painted a beautiful picture of Grandma playing her guitar. The title, Strings of Love, says it all!

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Grandma and her six girls went out to eat a special meal at Cracker Barrel.

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Grandma and her ornery grandkids! Wow! Our group picture has changed a lot over the years!! Now I totally know what it feels like to be attacked by camera toting paparazzi!

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Grandma’s Great Grandkids!! Our babies!

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The food was out of this world! Thank you Cousin Justin for the lamb!! We also feasted on grilled sirloin, pork, chicken, burgers and hot dogs. The men did a fabulous job feeding us!!! Aunt Linda’s apple pie and jello salad, Debbie’s homemade bread, Mrs. R.’s potato salad, Erin’s cookies, Kiki’s dip were all scrumptous! I know I’m leaving a lot out. My pants are tight!!!

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See how loving our family is? Uncle Alex enjoys smooching Uncle Butch!

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Lots of hugs! Aunt Kathryn and I.

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Of course, we HAD to go garage saling!!

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We love to serve one another. Aunt Kathryn delights in painting Aunt Marlis’ (Tootsie’s) toenails!

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Lots of gifts were given. We were welcomed to our hotel with roses and sparkling juice and rich chocolate. Thank you Cousin Debbie and Aunt Kelli!!

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Grandma loves her little dog, Lucy!

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We consumed a lot of coffee and chocolate covered coffee beans!!

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Aunt Marilyn!

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Aunt Linda!

We are all cowgirls at heart!

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Our kids wrote a song and sang it to us!

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Aunt Kelli. The hostess with the mostest!

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We found crawdads, snakes, minnos and poop eating butterflies!

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The kids LOVED playing in the river.

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Grandma sparkled all weekend!!!!!

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Jessica and the girls fell in love with Cousin Erin and Cousin Alexis. Thanks girls! Your time and attention meant so much!

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Mom’s gift to Grandma, a beautiful butterfly quilt.

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Aunt Kathryn and Aunt Kelli’s lily ponds are beautiful.

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Grandma is a sports FANATIC. She had visitors to her room to watch Nascar and baseball.

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The men sought the sanctuary of the living room and the TV.

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The kitchen was busy and full and I miss it. I hope to see y’all again soon! I am heartsick for each of you!

The word for the weekend was acclimated!

ac·cli·mate ( P ) Pronunciation Key (-klmt, kl-mt)
tr. & intr.v. ac·cli·mat·ed, ac·cli·mat·ing, ac·cli·mates
To accustom or become accustomed to a new environment or situation; adapt.

I challenge you to use this word several times this week!

Don’t forget to check out my gallery so you can see my Grandma, Mom and all my Aunts, Uncles and Cousins! I know I’m leaving so much out but I know we’ll cover everything in the comment section!

yee haw

***SPOILER WARNING*** Don’t let Grandma Vera read this!


Here I am sitting in our new ’99 Suburban while wearing my new hat! I am ready for our visit to the Sweet South!! I don’t think my hat is pulled down on my head like it’s supposed to be. You get the picture, though!

You can tell a true cowboy by the type of horse that he rides” Cowboy Proverb

Oil Of Gladness

Changes are coming, dear one. A merry heart heals like deep medicine. I AM opening the lid off the bottle and going to pour My oil of gladness upon you. Make merry and be glad. Sing in good cheer. Laugh in your prayers and enjoy My Presence. Your Papa is in the house and I AM smiling upon My children. I AM coming to save the sick and raise them up with the oil of gladness.

Ps 45:7 NKJV
You love righteousness and hate wickedness; Therefore God, Your God, has anointed You with the oil of gladness more than Your companions.

Ps 45:6-7 NLT
Your throne, O God, endures forever and ever. Your royal power is expressed in justice. You love what is right and hate what is wrong. Therefore God, your God, has anointed you, pouring out the oil of joy on you more than on anyone else.

I have been a lazy blogger. James and I were hit again by some weird stomach flu. I feel like we have had a good, healthy year overall, but these tummy bugs keep attacking us. Fortunately they have just lasted a couple of days per person. The kids are fine. I’ve been praying over them! God is good. Elaina gets to go on a Mother’s Day Out field trip tomorrow. She’s so excited to tour McDonald’s!!! I am thankful she isn’t sick.

So many have had sickness and health problems. I thought this was an encouraging word and scriptures to share!!!

My cousin Trish’s birthday is today. She is a wife and prego mom of two (well, technically three) and she’s an RN and works at a hospital. I want all my friends to see my beautiful cousin and her family. ClickHERE to check out my cousin Kandis’ birthday tribute to Trish. Trish, I can’t wait to see you soon!

I’ve been saving this poem for a post. Now is as good a time as ever! I really enjoy Maya Angelou. Everytime I read this I can hear her beautiful voice.

Christian

When I say… “I am a Christian”
I’m not shouting “I’m clean livin.”
I’m whispering “I was lost,”
Now I’m found and forgiven.

When I say…”I am a Christian”
I don’t speak of this with pride.
I’m confessing that I stumble
and need CHRIST to be my guide.

When I say… “I am a Christian”
I’m not trying to be strong.
I’m professing that I’m weak
and need HIS strength to carry on.

When I say… “I am a Christian”
I’m not bragging of success.
I’m admitting I have failed
and need God to clean my mess.

When I say… “I am a Christian”
I’m not claiming to be perfect,
My flaws are far too visible
but, God believes I am worth it.

When I say… “I am a Christian”
I still feel the sting of pain,
I have my share of heartaches
So I call upon His name.

When I say… “I am a Christian”
I’m not holier than thou,
I’m just a simple sinner
who received God’s good grace, somehow.

~Maya Angelou~